Reading 'The Velvet Rage' Still Feels Like a Wake-Up Call

Why the book that helped me stop performing is one I keep coming back to

Truth be told, I can’t remember what triggered me to buy The Velvet Rage, but knowing me it was probably off the back of Googling questions on why I felt a certain way. I was looking for answers.

Then came the early relationships, the breakups, and exposure to the weird and wonderful delights of the gay community. It was clear to me back then that we are…