Why is the gay community sometimes a bit sh*t?!

Gay friendships can be fragile. Gay spaces can feel excluding. There may be some science behind it...

For many of us, coming out was framed as the finish line. The moment we’d step into our truth and finally feel free, accepted, and whole. We were repeatedly told, “It gets better.” We believed there would be this magic moment of arrival - community, connection, visibility, belonging.

But what happens when, even after coming out, you still feel like an ou…